In an era dominated by vibrant portrayals of Indian weddings, a 2023 Marathi-language film stands out for its unflinching depiction of the harsh realities of arranged marriages. Set in rural Maharashtra, the film follows Savita, a young woman navigating her desire for education and a career amidst societal expectations to marry and bear children. Directed by Jayant Digambar Somalkar, the film is inspired by his own experiences, capturing the ritual of prospective grooms visiting to meet his sisters and female cousins. After winning several prestigious awards at festivals both in India and abroad, the film prepares for its theatrical release in India this Friday.
The narrative unfolds in a small village where farming is the primary livelihood. Savita, the protagonist, grapples with her aspirations in a patriarchal society that places undue importance on marriage. The film delves into the humiliating match-making process, where women are often judged on physical appearance and other superficial attributes. It also highlights the dowry system, which remains a prevalent practice despite being illegal for over six decades.
Somalkar's decision to create this film stems from a desire to challenge societal norms and ignite discussion about the objectification of women in arranged marriages. He remarks:
"When we think of weddings in India, we think of the big fat wedding full of fun and glamour. We think of Hum Aapke Hain Koun," – Somalkar
"But the reality for a majority of Indians is very different and parents often have to go through hell to get their daughters married," – Somalkar
Casting first-time actors from the village where the film was shot adds authenticity to the narrative. Lead actress Nandini Chikte's compelling performance has already earned her two awards, adding to the film's accolades. Her portrayal of Savita brings to life the struggles of a young woman trying to balance societal expectations with personal ambitions.
The film paints a vivid picture of Daulatrao, Savita's father, whose precarious economic situation drives his search for a suitable husband for his daughter. This quest underscores the financial pressures many families face, emphasizing marriage as a means to secure a better future.
Somalkar's work is notable for its raw portrayal of reality, contrasting sharply with other films that often glamorize arranged marriages. His intent is not only to entertain but also to provoke thought and conversation about deep-seated cultural practices. He asserts:
"I want to start a debate and encourage people to think about a process that objectifies women who have very little freedom to choose between marriage and career," – Somalkar
"I know one book or one film doesn't change society overnight, but it can be a start." – Somalkar
The film also sheds light on the lack of emphasis on women's education and career aspirations in such societies. It reveals how women like Savita face enormous pressure to conform to traditional roles, often at the cost of personal growth and freedom. As Chikte points out:
"Marriage is given far too much importance in our society," – Chikte
By setting the story against the backdrop of rural Maharashtra, where economic challenges are prevalent, Somalkar effectively highlights how these issues intersect with societal norms. The film's dedication to portraying these complexities without sugarcoating them is a testament to its commitment to realism.
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